LetitG0 wrote:Thats the worst. When you meet someone who is really awesome and hit it off... aaaand they live %+*$%+! ages away. I've been in that situation more than once.. Hell, one of my ex boyfriends was a LDR.
yeah so i met a really great guy a few weeks ago. he was only visiting a mutual friend philly and lives 1,600 miles away from me. He had a conversation the other night where we both confessed that we really really like each other and how much it sucks that we live so far apart :-(
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Posts: 20977 (07/02/09 20:33:16) Moderator #1 |
Well, its one thing to spend less time with your friends and another to completely ditch them and blow them off.
And then when they break up, they come back acting like things are the same.. and they're not. I think I'm just bitter.
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Posts: 16862 (07/02/09 21:44:14) |
EXACTLY PAWN
That's my issue. I don't appreciate that my friend is telling me how shes gonna miss me when i go to france and makes ZERO effort to hang out or talk to me or anything....its absolutely ridiculous and im tired of it. It would be one thing if like when she was with him she didn't completely stop texting or stop talking to me. I am usually in constant contact with her and now i haven't talked to her really in about 4 days.....and she's been with her bf every night
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Posts: 20979 (07/02/09 22:04:37) Moderator #1 |
Yeah, during senior year, me and my friends hung out EVERY friday night. It was a given. We'd all go to my house and hang out and one of my friends got a
boyfriend and completely blew us off and then complained about how she was left out and never got to see us.
I was just like wtf, we do the same thing every week, you're the one choosing not to see us. like i said, its one thing to see your friends less and another thing to completely blow them off.
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Posts: 2394 (07/02/09 23:45:33) |
I guess some girls just become so "madly in love" that they want to spend every waking moment with that other person, thus blowing off everyone else.
Ugh, even typing that makes me queasy. I am not a fan of sweet couples.
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Posts: 20981 (07/03/09 00:31:09) Moderator #1 |
Those people need to learn to strike a balance between the different parts of their lives.
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Posts: 22279 (07/03/09 07:12:11) |
I agree with what pawn said. Maybe I'm the only one, but I don't see how hard it is to balance time between social groups.
Also, I hate pda. Like jfc, get a room.
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Posts: 7912 (07/03/09 08:53:19) |
Me and boy are very unromantic most of the time, i don't think if you saw us in public you'd even guess we were together! I must admit when we first
got together I did want to hang out with him all the time because it was so new and exciting, but, I did still make time for my friends, Most of them were off
doing their own thing too so it kinda worked, we don't meet up all that often anyway. Last weekend we had a girly night round my friend's flat on the
Friday, it was really good to catch up and did make me want to see them more often. but with work and uni we find it really difficult
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Posts: 16863 (07/03/09 13:02:48) |
Exactly, like seriously there are 7 days in a week....how hard is it to spend one of those with your friends? ALSO...like not even just that, but she tells me
to tell her if I want to hang out, well i do...but i dont want to ask her to do something and have her blow me off if he comes up, because she's done that
a few times. Like I give her the benefit of the doubt because I've done that with boys before...but i also didn't go out and see him the next 3 days in
a row as well.
and we hung out last night and she told me it was nice hanging out with someone besides her boyfriend I just laughed and was like well i haven't done anything all week lol and she told me that i've been out of town or whatever, and i was like nope that was ONE day... but it was fun and she said she wants to do more stuff with the rest of the summer so we'll see.
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Posts: 6782 (07/04/09 23:02:12) |
@@#!.. with my history, I'll be lucky to find a guy that actually wants to spend more than one day with me in a week.
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Posts: 22285 (07/05/09 06:26:11) |
Ditto, ditto.
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Posts: 2297 (07/05/09 07:46:05) |
I just can't do it anymore. I can't hang out with her. Fml. >.> srsly, why would you tell me about the hickey you got this weekend...?stfu.
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Posts: 20992 (07/07/09 02:26:41) Moderator #1 |
#++%, my friend made me seem creepy as #++% today. I told her at my bonfire to be cool around cody and donald and *%$$.
Today she went to disneyland and found cody in downtown disney and went and talked to him, which is fine, as long as she's not being a creep. But I guess she told him (WHICH SHE'S DONE BEFORE AND I GOT MAD AT) that it was good to be able to put a face to a name since she hears so much about him.. And she also tossed donalds name in there. What the #++%? He's just like who's talking about donald? And she goes on to say how everyone kept telling her how hot he was and *%$$ and he's just like what? All these people have met him maybe once at last years bonfire and while he was telling me all this, he seemed legit creeped out so I had to tell him how she heard about since some of the girls I used to work with would talk about him because they thought he was hot (which is true) and like it was creepy but he also found it funny which is better than him being solely creeped out. #++%. I'm so pissed. She texted me going "eh boys" and I yelled at her about not letting on that I talk about them and *%$$ and she was like "well I wasn't talking about you, just the other people at the store!" LIKE THAT ISN'T CREEPY EITHER. #++%. Some people just really don't know how to play it cool. #++%. #++%. #++%. #++%.
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Posts: 519 (07/07/09 03:53:55) |
+%%+ YOU.
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Posts: 22295 (07/07/09 18:37:44) |
He misses me.
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Posts: 22296 (07/07/09 19:58:50) |
He also has trust issues. His one gf cheated on him. Damnit.
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Posts: 16874 (07/08/09 22:46:28) |
I literally have no friends anymore. I mean I have my bestfriend kinda but she's so *+!$!!% absorbed with her boyfriend she doesn't really give a *%+*
about what's going on with my life. I told her about my life and she encouraged me to go after him....BUT probably just so she wont feel as bad talking
about her boyfriend, last night she said oh you don't even want a boyfriend...and i was like UM WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN? ever since that last *+!$!!% guy
that's really all i've wanted. I realize i don't just want a hook...not only that but i had literally just finished telling her.
but whatever I know part of it is my fault because i haven't really blatantly said HEY YOU IGNORE ME BUT THANKS. I hint at it though. Last night her bf was upset that he couldn't see her because she was with me............he's literally seen her basically every other night in the last two *+!$!!% weeks and i won;t even be in town next week. loooolllllll my other friend started hating me FOR NO REASON!!! Literally. She just commented my status all bitchy BASICALLY saying oh you would have thought it would have sunk in that you were going for france since you;ve made daily countdowns for the last 5 weeks @@%@ her. She almost got me *+!$!!% written up at work. I should hate her she has NO GODDAMN REASON TO HATE ME god. I REALLY hate life lately. Like seriously. Not to sound all like gothic emo girl but i don't think i've ever felt so alone and so much that people don't care about me as i do right now.
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Posts: 21000 (07/08/09 22:53:36) Moderator #1 |
I honestly think Im having some sort of crisis.
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Posts: 6785 (07/09/09 09:15:48) |
My closest guy friend told me that he has a big crush on me and I told him "that sucks". He lives in California. He also said that it sucks when I
talk about all these guys being so shitty to me because "he wouldn't". Earlier that day I was thinking how awesome it is to have a close guy
friend that I can just hang out with and not feel awkward around. I hate that what he said was so cute but he's not the guy I want to hear it from.
Oh and how awesome is it when you really like a guy and he basically ends it without any explanation? Cool, right? So glad I finally let my guard down.. 
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Posts: 22303 (07/09/09 09:32:18) |
Rach, it sounds like your friend is jealous that you're going to France.
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